@Edent I normally do Doctor's appointments online; (It's a case of pressing a button almost exactly at 8am to get a chance but then not being able to choose when it happens). But I think your point about new cities is interesting; it's about choosing *when* you want that friction, and knowing that you have fallbacks to relax. It's kind of like a rollercoaster; you chose to exercise the bits that get scared of heights and speed, but don't want to be scared when travelling to town.