I'm with you on this, I think. There's always a drive in this kind of work to spare the feelings of the perpetrator, rather than to address the harm done to the victim. And so the language slowly shifts until we're back in a place where the perpetrators, who are after all the people in power, feel comfortable again, and the minorities are once again being ill-treated. So, for me, the term "micro-incivility" can get in the sea, and I'm going to keep talking about micro-aggressions. Some of which aren't really all that micro, if I'm honest.