When we got married, the registry office form (which included lots of references and information on same sex marriage) asked for the name of the bride and name of the groom. I asked them when they would be getting it updated and they said it was too expensive. I offered to pay for the re-print as I felt it was important if people finally had that opportunity after years of campaigning and then were reminded that they still didn’t ‘fit’. The council declined my offer.